17 hours agoMember-onlyThe Audacity of Those Who Believe they are above the Lawand How they Use Meritocracy to Justify And they are trained to it. They are trained to believe that they are better. That’s what the myth of Meritocracy is all about. If you MERIT more, then you get more. How do you merit more? In America, you have to be a white man. What American slang will…Poverty3 min readPoverty3 min read
Oct 27Member-onlyMedicare and the Ethos of CongressOctober 27, 2023 Medicare Part D is a Vicious Lie that Keeps Insurance Companies Wealthy at the Expense of the Elderly. Please note that I am disabled (newly 5 years ago) and am reaching my Medicare age also. And note that I have a master’s degree in public health. This…Politics4 min readPolitics4 min read
Oct 15House of Rep — We Need a RedoI’m not sure I understand why the great states of America are still following some old rules as made up by and for the House of Representatives. These rules have been around for far too long and they don’t serve the American people. One of the most enduring tests of…Legislation3 min readLegislation3 min read
Oct 8Member-onlySoftware and the Old LadyMy husband and I got into a roaring argument about Society’s dismissal of older women. Older women’s experience is of no consequence, and older women are barely tolerated in society. Guess who the old lady is? It is I. He exhorts me not to respond to the bland dismissal that…Software4 min readSoftware4 min read
Jul 12Member-onlySecrets of FibromyalgiaSometimes, I am standing at the sink. I may be brushing my teeth or washing up, but I am struck by the pain I feel. That pain makes it impossible for me to stand for more than a few minutes. I have fibromyalgia and Central Pain Syndrome. The fact is…Fibromyalgia4 min readFibromyalgia4 min read
Mar 16Member-onlySelf-Deception is all the Rage in the United StatesI’m not surprised that Trump and his ilk are having a heyday. You know that humans want to believe what they need to believe to make their own lives okay and even tolerable. What makes Country & Western so popular is the notion that blue color workers, though disenfranchised, are…Politics3 min readPolitics3 min read
Mar 7Member-onlyHating Myself and it’s StupidStop hating on yourself! Ugh. So much of my life was about being beautiful, being attractive, being pretty. It is hard to believe that I am not now that… I was never able to explain to my husband that it was okay to not be “hot”, because God knows I…Beauty2 min readBeauty2 min read
Jan 22Member-onlyWhat you need to Know about Life in 20231. Serendipity is your friend. People are beautiful, but only if you believe it. A big smile helps. 2. Changes don’t trickle in; they move with a big whoosh. Move away from the coast and for heaven’s sake, get out of Florida. 3. You can’t have it all, where you…20232 min read20232 min read
Dec 18, 2022Member-only2022 the Year my Life is ShatteredCopied from my friend Casey about this year: “No one I know began this year on a full tank. …20227 min read20227 min read
Oct 16, 2022Member-onlyWhat my life has taught me about ForgivenessFORGIVENESS 2022 I have a long and complicated relationship with forgiveness. At first, I couldn’t do it because I equated forgiveness with allowing the other person to get back in my life and perhaps redo the damage. Forgiveness August 2, 2010 I realize that I am repeating a lesson that I have learned…Forgiveness 20225 min readForgiveness 20225 min read